Core Steps for Creating More Serendipity

1. Cultivate Openness and Curiosity

Approach people, situations, and information with genuine interest. Curiosity helps you stay alert to “serendipity triggers” …the small sparks, clues, or comments that can lead somewhere unexpected.


2. Set ‘Hooks’ and Share Multiple Facets of Yourself

When introducing yourself, share more than one role, interest, or project. These “serendipity hooks” increase the chances that someone will make a connection you didn’t expect.
Example: “I work in tech, but I’m also learning to cook Ethiopian food and researching community design.”


3. Spot and Connect the Dots

Train yourself to notice stray pieces of information and consider how they might relate. When something odd or interesting shows up, pause and ask, “What could this mean?” Over time, this builds the habit of connecting dots others overlook.


4. Act on Chance Opportunities

Serendipity requires movement. When an unexpected moment shows up, a comment, an invitation, a coincidence, take a small step toward it. Follow up, reach out, experiment, or explore. Action turns accidents into outcomes.


5. Embrace and Reframe the Unexpected

Detours, mistakes, disruptions, and surprises often hold hidden possibilities. Reframing helps you shift from “Why did this happen?” to “What could this make possible?” Flexibility and optimism unlock the upside of the unexpected.


6. Build and Nurture Diverse Networks

Broader networks, “weak ties,” and diverse communities expose you to different ideas, perspectives, and connections. These environments dramatically increase the frequency of serendipitous encounters.


7. Reflect Regularly

Make space to think about your week, your conversations, and your experiences. Look for missed dots, unexplored signals, and overlooked opportunities. Reflection strengthens your ability to recognize serendipity when it happens again.


Key Principles from Busch’s Research

  • Openness: Don’t over-script your life. Leave room for surprise.
  • Curiosity: Ask more questions, and better ones.
  • Preparedness: Be ready to act when something unexpected appears.
  • Reframing: Treat disruptions as potential openings.
  • Collaboration: Share your ideas and “hooks” so others can help create opportunities with you.

Quote to Highlight

“Serendipity is not passive luck, but the ability to see bridges where others see gaps, and to act upon the unexpected.”


In Summary

Creating serendipity is about showing up with curiosity, sharing more of yourself, building diverse relationships, and taking small steps when chance presents itself. When you stay open, follow your intuition, and reflect on what you experience, the unexpected shifts from random luck to meaningful opportunity.

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